tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-71490857263144979872024-03-18T20:45:27.525-07:00How We Spend Our Days"Because how we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives."
Annie DillardBrittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-12389102274284730962012-11-28T14:11:00.000-08:002012-11-28T14:11:06.800-08:00The TreeChristmas was a puppy nipping at my heels this year, the minute we'd left Aunt Ruth's house from Thanksgiving dinner. I don't usually get the Christmas bug like this, but seeing my newsfeed full of pictures of lighted trees and comments about Christmas music sparked a little Christmas fire in me and it was time to get a tree.<br />
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On Sunday, after our second Thanksgiving feast at my in-laws' house on Saturday, I noticed a little greenhouse on the way to church.<br />
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I told Pete about it, and late in the afternoon, he declared, "Let's go get our tree!"<br />
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We drove the mile or so to the greenhouse.<br />
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It's a little place. Just a few trees out front, and a few tables inside lined with homemade wreaths. The man watching the shop that afternoon, who was not Walt Davidheiser but apparently another long-time local, showed us the machine where evergreen branches are twisted around wire forms into thick, bushy wreaths. <br />
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He also showed us every tree.<br />
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It didn't take us long to pick one we liked most. It's a douglas fir, with nice soft needles. We also chose a wreath with a pretty blood-red ribbon.<br />
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The shopkeeper asked if we'd like to take his truck to drive the tree home. It was a moment out of Norman Rockwell. Or Smallville. The friendly old tree seller, so steeped in his trade he smells of pine needles, offering the use of his beat-up old baby blue Chevy pickup truck to two youngsters, new in town, as they prepare to take home their first live Christmas tree. It was perfect.<br />
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I worried the tree, standing not much more than 6 feet high, would look tiny in our high-ceiling'd drawing room. But after Pete cut off the lower branches and we wrestled it into its stand, it stood proud and tall in the corner like it was grown for that very purpose.<br />
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Christmas is settling in nicely at Euroclydon.<br />
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<br />Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-25935471995731533422012-10-28T13:44:00.000-07:002012-10-28T13:44:22.926-07:00JadisIt's costume season. Walking through Target recently, I overheard the following exchange.<br />
Mother: This is cool. The devil?<br />
Child: I don't want to be scary.<br />
Mother: This is pretty too: the flamenco dancer.<br />
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Tubes of white creme makeup, colored hair spray, adhesive eyelashes in purple lace... these things are only for sale in October. And watching ordinary people carefully select Witch's Brew nail polish or a curly black wig with silver highlights or a headband with pink leopard ears is quite amusing. <br />
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I'm not that into Halloween, really. But some friends of ours host an annual Costume Party for Halloween that gets pretty intense. One year someone dressed as a fisherman. In addition to the cargo vest, fisherman's hat, and fishing pole, he had built a canoe out of cardboard which was held up around his waist by suspenders. Inside the boat, he'd fashioned a pair of pants into a set of legs, so it looked like he was sitting in the boat, even though his legs actually extended beneath the boat, allowing him to walk around. His fiance dressed as a fish in a huge felt costume stuffed with balloons to make her appear plump. Her face was visible through the fish's huge gaping mouth.<br />
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This, and other elaborate costumes, are commonplace at the Halloween Bash. So when the theme this year was movie characters, we knew we had a lot to live up to.<br />
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Husband chose his character first. Mr Tumnus, from <i>The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe</i>. The chance to dress as a faun was irresistible. I wanted to be a counterpart of some sort, so although he petitioned for me to be Lucy Pevensie, I chose to be the White Witch, Jadis.<br />
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We tackled the Tumnus costume first. We already own an old-school black umbrella, and used some empty cereal boxes and kraft paper to make packages. A red scarf would make him appear dressed for a wintry day. For horns, Husband fashioned small bits of wood into pointed nubs, drilled holes in them, and strung them on a length of floral wire. The wire formed a nearly invisible headband, keeping the horns perfectly in place. <br />
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For hooves, Husb constructed stilts by screwing an old pair of dress shoes into a two-by-four and then connecting that to a base which he whittled in the front to resemble a split hoof. We had found a pair of furry sleeves at Goodwill. It was unclear what their original purpose had been, but we put them around the stilts to cover the shoes. The angle of the shoe meant that he was nearly walking on tiptoe, but with no support under his heel, like even a stiletto would provide. This made his entire foot appear to be the ankle portion of faun's legs. and they made the perfect ankle portions of the goat hoof. <br />
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The most important part of the costume, though, was the fur legs.
Husband bought some fur fabric at Joann's and we embarked on our first
sewing masterpiece together. Using a pair of pajama pants as a pattern,
we traced and cut out four faces for the pants: two fronts and two
backs. Then, lining them up carefully, we fed them through the sewing
machine and slowly watched a pair of pants emerge. A quick tutorial from
youtube on sewing an elastic waistband, and we had wearable pants! It
was our most triumphant moment as husband and wife, I think. Seeing
those pants come into existence.<br />
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When he first put them on, they were quite obviously a little too short.<br />
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His real ankles showed between the bottom of the pants, and the top of the goat ankle. So we had to make extensions and sew them onto the bottom of the pants. After that, they were perfect.<br />
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The Jadis costume was next. One small element of the costume would be shoes. Whatever else I wore, the shoes would have to be white and appear snow-worthy. I have nothing that fits this criteria. So I stopped at ReUzIt on the Tuesday before the party to find any shoes that would fit. A pair of black heels with squared-off toes seemed right so $4.75 later I was on my way to Walmart for white spraypaint.<br />
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Thursday afternoon, when I got around to painting them, I found - to my great distress - that the shoes were either incomparably stainproof, or else just made of some completely paint-resistant fabric. As much as I sprayed on there, not one drop of white paint stuck. The shoes were decidedly black. And staying that way. Time was running short and in addition to shoes, I still needed my icicle crown, a dress, and a fur stole.<br />
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I knew the key to my Jadis success would be the dress. If I failed in my dress shopping, I was prepared to wear my own wedding gown as a last resort, but it seems irreverent to wear one's own bridal gown as a costume. So I was on the hunt for a thrifted one. I'd tried three thrift stores with no success. It seemed no one donated their wedding gowns to Goodwill anymore. By Thursday night time was running short, and I'd found nothing. I had to find a dress. <br />
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I google-mapped thrift stores with my zip code and after finding the first one was only children and baby stuff, I went to the second one: the local Goodwill, which I'd not yet visited. It looked mammoth from the outside and I was sure I'd meet with success inside. But inside, I was met with this:<br />
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Yes. A Goodwill of bins. Where everything is sold by the pound. I was immediately discouraged. A wedding dress was certainly not hiding in these bins. But I took some time to browse the shoe section and found a pair of Nordstrom Comfort white pumps, size 8 1/2, with broad heels that wouldn't make me feel like I, too, was walking on faun ankles all night.<br />
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I had time for one more Goodwill, one I'd heard excellent things about, one 30 minutes away, but that was open 'til 9:00. I called Husband, told him I'd be a little later, and made my way there.<br />
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Stepping inside, I saw the costume attire gathered toward the front of the store. Goodwill knows its October purpose. But no white gowns. Then, across the room, I glimpsed a fabulous billowing white wedding dress hanging on the wall. I beeline'd to the dress and found the price tag. $100. My heart sank. The costume party is intense, but not $100 dress intense. Across from the first dress, I saw another one. "$25 As Is" As is? Broken zipper? Huge rip? Wine stains down the front? Nope. A nickel-sized black stain, possibly pen or marker, at the right hip. I snatched it from the rack and into the dressing room, hardly believing my luck. I put it on.<br />
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It fit! It fit as in I-could-have-worn-it-as-my-actual-wedding-dress fit. A size 8 dress, there on the rack, a week before Halloween... The faun pants triumph was matched, possibly surpassed, by the sheer triumph I felt walking out of the dressing room with the perfect Jadis dress gathered up in my arms. Before I left, I walked around the store and happened upon a rocking chair, an exact match to rocker we already have. It was $10. So I hauled the chair and the dress to the checkout line, paid $35, and headed home, more satisfied than I'd imagined possible at the start of the evening. <br />
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At home, I tried on the dress with a length of white fur fabric Husb had bought to try out as faun ankles prior to the ankle sleeves we ended up finding. It looked perfect. I sewed the ends into triangles so it would have more of a shawl appearance, then safety pinned it to shape around my shoulders so it would stay in place. <br />
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There was just one day left, and I still needed a crown. I had some icicles (thanks to my mother-in-law!) so I just needed a tiara to attach them to.<br />
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Friday after work, I hit up the Dollar Tree for a pink tiara. It had an edging of pink fur and a plastic gem butterfly at the peak, but I tore that stuff off, spraypainted the whole thing white, and superglued the icicles to the tiara's points. OK, Husb did the supergluing on Friday evening as I was hairspraying my hair into wild White Witch waves.<br />
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When it was time to go, I think we looked pretty authentic.<br />
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We were, I'm shocked to say, extremely impressive to our costumed friends at the party. Forrest Gump, Wolverine, Mary Poppins, Princess Leia, Han Solo, Esmeralda, and Quasimodo were just a few of our party companions, and all had impressive costumes. Tumnus and I, however, were awarded Best Costumes! What an exciting honor!<br />
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There has been little in our marriage so collaborative, or so successful, as our efforts on our costumes this year. I am proud of our Best Costumes Award, but I'm more proud of our mutual creativity and the achievement of making things together. <br />
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Happy Halloween!<br />
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Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-49105324751358918202012-09-24T16:49:00.000-07:002012-09-24T16:49:20.522-07:00Gold StarThis was a gold-star weekend. At every turn, it seemed, I was doing something else that I loved just as much as the last thing I was doing.<br />
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1. Me, Daddy, and Celeste.<br />
Dad and I took a 14-mile bike ride through some of our favorite roads. It was somewhat backwards from our usual route, but it was good. We planned in a few good hills, took a scenic stretch down the Schuylkill River Trail, and stopped at Bike Line to get our bikes inspected for the MS-150 City to Shore this weekend.<br />
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Celeste and me are ready. 75 miles. Bring it on. <br />
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2. Treasure Hunting<br />
After the ride, we returned to 1550 where Mom was still working on setting up my new laptop. I wanted to find something in my old bedroom (I forget what now) and ended up pulling a filing box of my childhood school stuff out of the closet. Just about the time I started leafing through it, Sister came in the door! She was visiting for the day for dinner at MomMom's that night. It was a little family powwow there in the living room. I love my new home, I love living with Husband, but there is something so sweet about a little taste of the past and hanging out with the fam at 1550.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Check out this fitting 2nd grade journal entry I found from 1994.</td></tr>
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3. Organizing<br />
I came home, showered and changed out of my biking spandex, and then went over to school for about an hour to organize a big shipment of teacher supplies that came in on Friday. When this shipment of things comes, it's my task in the office to organize it according to what each teacher ordered. So I have to crosscheck the packing slip with my ordering document and divy out all the items to the right people. <br />
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I didn't get it nearly done and spent most of today working on it. When I finally finished and all the teachers picked up their markers and erasers and construction paper and gradebooks, I felt a bit deflated. I need a weekend job in a warehouse. Sorting shipments is just way too much fun. <br />
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4. Dinner with Grand-Ones<br />
Mom and Dad both had birthdays this week, so MomMom and PopPop had us all for dinner Saturday night to celebrate. Grammy also came. We dined like royalty on MomMom's chicken casserole, broccoli and corn casserole, mashed potatoes, and chocolate chip cake. When we were arriving, a fine misty rain was falling. A brilliant rainbow spread its arms across Narvon.<br />
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5. What you rejoice in, you resemble.<br />
Our new pastor, Jere Scott, preached for the first time this week. He used a text in Ezekiel about the idolatry of the Israelite elders to encourage us to search our own hearts for their source of joy. His reminder of what happens to our hearts when they honor anything above God led to the good news of Christ who is the only One who can give us a new heart altogether, a heart that will be inclined toward Him.<br />
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4. Baby Time<br />
I love the nursery. I spent second service there this week and snuggled some of my favorite little boys. It's probably the most selfish service opportunity. I mean, what's hard about spending an hour hanging out with your friends' perfect little babies?<br />
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In preparation for the Bible Study starting here this Wednesday, I dove in headfirst and cleaned. OK, only the downstairs. But it felt awesome. I also did a little Autumnal decorating.<br />
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I had some extra time between a friend's late afternoon thirty-one party
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crocheted. A large group of people were celebrating something down the
hill under the pavilion, so I sat up on a bench along the walking path.
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A bench, some yarn, a book, and a clear sky. That's all it takes to reset my mind and heart and prepare me for a new week. </div>
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Sunday is becoming my "practice relaxing" day. I'm really awful at relaxing. I've got to have all the chores done before I can even dare to rest, and we all know the chores never <i>ever </i>get completely done. Because of this, I have to put enjoyable things on my To Do list along with errands and gardening and cleaning out the car and doing laundry. Reading a chapter of a good book or working on my latest crochet project are just as hard to complete as those undesirable tasks. </div>
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Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-46311219938456798182012-09-06T18:12:00.003-07:002012-09-06T18:12:41.057-07:00Upgrading and RestoringTwo years ago, just after we got married, we got iPhones. Life with Nella, as I christened my phone, was fabulous. She came with me everywhere: to the beach, on amusement park rides, indoor rock-climbing, out on snowy wintertime walks, on bicycle rides, and on countless little adventures. I dropped her only once and she sustained no damage. Nella was everything: my connection to the world (my constant link to email and facebook), my mini diary (storing scores of little memories), my planner (holding not only my calendar, but reminders and To Do lists too) and my entertainment. Let's face it: Nella became my addiction.<br />
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This month, we were due for an upgrade with AT&T. An upgrade! I tried to be excited, but I was a little sad. What would life be like with a new, better iPhone? How could I betray Nella? Hadn't she been such a friend to me? <br />
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At the AT&T store two Fridays ago we learned that our new phones would be $100 each, but that we could likely get trade-in credit for our old iPhones if we were willing to trade them in. That sounded ok as long as I could keep everything Nella had been storing for me for two years. So we talked to Krista about retrieving apps from the cloud and were assured that contacts and photos could also be transferred to the new phone via a fancy schmancy iPhone machine. <br />
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Then I asked about texts and notes and voice recordings. These, I was told, were associated with the phone and would not come over through the magic machine. I panicked. I need my notes. Not only do I have notes of Christmas gift ideas and to do lists and important things to remember, but I have memorable quotes from my old people - funny, one-of-a-kind sentences uttered impulsively by my clients with dementia, an irreplaceable record of cute things they said. So I frantically started emailing the notes to myself. Then I did the same with voice recordings, which were also from my clients.Even as I preserved these little memories by emailing them to myself, I felt sad to give up Nella. What is it about a piece of machinery that takes such a place in your heart? Why does a bundle of plastic and metal matter so much? I hope I'm not alone in thinking that it does. <br />
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In the meantime, Marquita got Husby's new phone set up and plugged in for the transfer of data. She looked up the serial number of his old phone and found it would be a trade-in value of $64. This was better than we thought! We'd only pay $36 for the new iPhone! My phone came out to the same value.<br />
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Husband's data transfer, Marquita learned when she plugged in the two phones, would take 35 minutes. This was OK since we had both brought our books. We sat in the car for half an hour, waiting for the transfer to be done. When we came back into the store, Marquita's face was grim. Husband's transfer had completed just fine. However, when she plugged in my two phones, the transfer time was estimated at two hours. Marquita didn't want to tie up the magic iPhone transfer machine for two hours - and we didn't really want to wait another two hours in the parking lot - so she suggested I take the two phones home, copy what I wanted to save onto my computer, then plug in my new iPhone and copy the pictures onto it. This sounded logical. So we took Husby's new iPhone, and my two phones back home. <br />
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I looked at over 1100 pictures that night. That's how many pictures were on my iPhone. Two years of sunset pictures, food pictures, dressing room shots, and should-I-buy-this photos I'd texted to friends. That night I went through all the pictures and whittled it down to just about 300. Then, I plugged Nella into the computer and copied those pictures onto the hard drive. When I plugged the new phone in, it opened in iTunes and asked me a deep and distressing question.<br />
<br /><i>You have previously synced another Apple device to this computer. Do you want to restore the current device from Brittany's iPhone or set it up as a new device? </i><br />
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Restore? Restore is a bad word. Restore means delete. Overwrite. Eliminate. Restore is anything but restorative, in the technological sense. Restoring is losing. But yet, setting it up as a new device seemed silly too since the old device, known to my PC as Brittany's iPhone and to me as Nella, was no longer going to exist in my life.<br />
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Puzzled, I called AT&T. The operator who answered knew nothing. She transferred me to the Apple department. Ah, I thought. The Apple Department. Someone living in California who works for Apple, has a view of palm trees outside her cubicle window, makes tons of money, owns at least two iPads, has sassy piercings in her eyebrows and works overtime at the Genius Bar for fun. Surely, she will know about restoring. I explained my plight: to restore or not to restore.<br />
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"Hmm," she said. "I really have no idea. You can always go to apple dot com slash support and type in your question there."<br />
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I love Apple - really, I do. But I was disappointed.<br />
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I said thanks anyway, and hung up. <br />
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And now the question burned into my eyes from the screen. Restore? Or set up as new device? You must choose!<br />
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I felt like Ariel in The Little Mermaid, squeezing shut her eyes, turning her face away, and signing on the line under "for all eternity." <br />
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I clicked "Restore."<br />
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The next forty-five minutes were torture. The progress bar just crawled from left to right at an absolute snail's pace. I was a wreck. What was happening! Would my brand-new iPhone be wiped clean from this restoration? It was a feeling of sheer panic.<br />
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I confess: I am slightly embarrassed about all this. I stared at that progress bar for nearly the entire forty-five minutes. Except for the few minutes when I closed me eyes to let Husband pray for me. Yes, I needed God's hand of peace. It was that bad. In that interminable block of time, I grew increasingly aware of how insignificant my worries really were. So what if I lost everything. I'm sure the phone would still work. And hadn't I copied or emailed to myself everything important anyway? What if it woke up from its long restoration and was blank. Wouldn't a fresh start be a bit, well, refreshing? Did I need the emotional and digital baggage that Nella had so willingly carried for me for so long?<br />
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I was just on the cusp of admitting that it would be OK to see my new phone wake up empty and memory-less when the restoration completed. The iPhone shut down, and booted back up. And what was there after the restoration?<br />
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Everything. When she woke up, Stella (I think I'll call her Stella) had Nella's wallpaper on her lock screen and home screen. She had my text message history. She had my notes, my photos, my recent calls log, and my alarms. My apps were even all back in the same places. Stella was Nella, reincarnated! Restored!<br />
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I didn't need to drag the photos I'd copied onto my hard drive over onto Stella. And it was a good thing because it turned out not to work anyway. I had everything I'd been so worried about right there.<br />
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The next day when I took Nella back to the AT&T store to trade her in, she was only worth $55. The day before she'd been valued at $64 and I was a little annoyed. Krista at the store said the values change by the day, so I could try again another day, but I didn't want to come back. So I took the $55. It was worth the nine dollar loss in order to have Stella be my new Nella.<br />
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For a few hours, the night before, Nella and Stella had been together. I carried them both from room to room, little twins. <br />
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I asked, when I finally turned Nella in, where the trade-in iPhones go. Nobody seemed to know. They just get packed in white boxes and mailed back to the iPhone return center. Nella's memory has been wiped, and as much as I wish she were like C3PO who will start a new life somewhere never knowing the adventures he had before his memory was cleared, I know Nella is just glass and plastic and metal and she never knew anything to begin with. Maybe the term "memory" for electronic devices is a little misleading to emotional people like me. <br />
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First, if you are going to get a new iPhone, do it the way I did. Buy the new one at full price. Then take the old one and the new one home, plug in the old one and let iTunes back it up. Then plug in the new one and choose Restore. You don't need to freak out for 45 minutes like I did. Go take a walk. Or a shower. Or a nap. Relax. It's restoring. Soon, your new iPhone will be just like your old one and - if you're lucky - she'll have a rhyming name.<br />
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Secondly, distance yourself from your digital appliances. The panic I felt when Stella was restoring from Nella's backup was unhealthy. My priorities are mixed up if I feel this way over a phone. Yes, take care of your things. Especially your expensive things. But lay up more treasures in heaven than in your pocket. Every now and then, turn that phone off.<br />
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Unplug.<br />
Restore. Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-11345702071349691412012-07-11T04:10:00.000-07:002012-07-11T04:10:06.067-07:00TaprootAt some early point in my science learning, I was taught about taproots. If I remember right, a plant with a taproot has a single, thick, deep root with fine, fibrous roots fingering their way into the surrounding earth. If the plant in question is a weed, you're in luck because the taproot shape makes it quite easy to get the whole root system out with a single tug.<br />
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It was this teaching that I pondered this evening while pulling weeds on my new brick patio. Many of the weeds were equipped with the handy taproot system which made for ideal removal. And I learned something this evening: I like weeding.<br />
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There are a few things I miss about our "yard" at our old apartment. I miss the bunnies and the sky-fuls of fireflies. I miss the cemetery and my Thinking Rock. I miss the stone wall and the gate and the raspberries and the hawk we saw there once. <br />
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But at Euroclydon, our new home, I <i>love </i>my yard. I love the flowers. I love the patio. I love the mowing and pruning and weeding. I love the morning birds and the nighttime "birds," the bats. I love our shed, our driveway, the Russian sage behind the house, the big maple tree, and the butterflies. I've found my inner hobbit, in love with things that grow. <br />
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My roots are growing deep already, but they're not taproot. I think pretty soon it will take more than a single tug to pull me out of this ground I'm starting to love. My roots are spreading wide, deep, and tangled. I think I'll grow well here.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-80640588452010380802012-07-07T06:23:00.001-07:002012-07-07T06:23:48.846-07:00New PrioritiesWe've moved! Hurrah!<br />
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We are totally and completely in love with our new home and getting used to being homeowners. It's been awesome, but then again, the first bills haven't arrived yet...<br />
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Life at our new house has changed a few priorities for us already. Here are a few homeownership keys we've learned in the past week:<br />
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1. Use cold water. I used to wash dishes in hot water. No more. That oil cost us a fortune! I'm not heating up water unless I have to.<br />
2. Yardwork. Trimming, mowing, pruning, cleaning up... We're now responsible for this little .2 acre of ground and we're gonna treat it right!<br />
3. Hospitality. God has been so unbelievably generous to us with the gift of this beautiful home. It is our joy to take advantage of opportunities to share it with others. <br />
4. Go outside. After two years of living in a small upstairs apartment, it is so delightful to be able to open a door right off the kitchen and breathe fresh air! I spend as much time going in and out of our doors as possible.<br />
5. Soak up natural light. Do I care that the sunshine came in my window on this Saturday morning and woke me up before 6:00? No. I do not care. I can't get enough of all this natural light and I'll gladly be woken up at dawn for the pleasure of seeing sunlight.<br />
6. Say "Hi." At the farmhouse, we didn't ever get to know any neighbors. Now, at our new home, this town is our town and we hope it will be so for a long time. We want to be a friendly presence in the neighborhood.<br />
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It already feels like we've lived here forever. We love it.<br />
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We. Can't. Wait.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-38375123287750541452012-06-02T15:00:00.000-07:002012-06-02T15:00:04.899-07:00T-Shirt RescueEver buy one of those way-too-big-for-you t-shirts? Mine were collected on vacations when I wanted to remember the trip and decided that a men's medium-size t-shirt was the perfect souvenir. I was a pretty lanky child and these T's were quite big on me then. I never did grow into them (did I think I would?) and they are just as billowy on me now as they were then. <br />
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I'm nostalgic about things like this, though, and can't quite bring myself to toss these in the Goodwill box. So I found a solution to rescue them. I created a wrap shirt! It will be perfect for a little extra layer in the summer evenings, or would even work as a beach cover-up.<br />
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Put the shirt on and decide where you want to fasten it back together. Draw a pencil line around the collar to indicate where to cut. You're going to trim the collar off.<br />
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Put the shirt back on and double check your fastening location. Mark it on both panels.<br />
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Step 5:<br />
Sew on a button on the inner panel at the place you marked.<br />
Cut a button-hole on the upper panel at the place you marked.<br />
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I was going to reinforce all the cut edges, or at least hem them. I suppose still could do that. But this project was incredibly easy without that step. <br />
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PS: Here's the awesome t-shirt back, and the reason I wanted to rescue this T from Goodwill doom.<br />
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<br />Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-76339957440120516212012-06-01T04:28:00.001-07:002012-06-01T04:28:39.394-07:00Not a Sparrow Falls, EpilogueAs we pulled into the driveway after burying Shasta, I saw the sudden, bright spark of my first firefly of the summer. We took a walk, watching for little firebugs. On our way back to the house, somebody was waiting behind the lilac bush for us. It was Jasper!<br />
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She's not ours. I think she belongs to a neighbor. But she comes to visit sometimes. Usually Jaspie doesn't like to be picked up or cuddled, but on this night, after I gave her a good rub while she lay in the grass, she let me pick her up and carry her back to the house.<br />
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She felt so thick and warm and strong. She purred and looked around wide-eyed when I carried her into the porch. I put her down and went inside to get a dish of milk, which she lapped up eagerly. Then she trotted purposefully away and sat down to clean her paws and face while I watched from the stoop.<br />
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Jasper was just exactly what I needed tonight. She will never replace Shasta; she's not even mine, after all. But after saying goodbye to my seventeen-year companion, a little snuggle with Jasper did ease the ache a little. <br />
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And that's why I call this post "Not a Sparrow Falls." Shasta was a small creature, insignificant enough to be "sold for a penny." But he did not die without God's notice and his death's impact on me did not escape God's notice either. He gave me a little hour with Jasper because "not one of [these creatures] is forgotten by God." What a comfort it is to know that my God cares about these little sadnesses and orchestrates little joys to help soothe the sorrowing heart.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-51622239505267734952012-05-31T19:27:00.000-07:002012-05-31T19:27:13.150-07:00Not a Sparrow FallsToday I said farewell to a very dear friend. He was seventeen, old for a cat. And he'd been my kitty since I was about eight years old. <br />
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Shasta Blackberry Lodge died in Mom's arms tonight and we buried him under my bedroom window. Shasty and his sister, Aravis, came to us when my sister and I were little. We wanted a kitten, although our family already had a few cats at that point, and were working to accomplish a piano-practicing goal in order to earn one. It was during this summer that two little kittens, a boy and a girl, were abandoned on our street. Never a family to turn away a cat, we welcomed them into our home, piano achievements were forgotten, and Shasta and Aravis became quick members of the family. I gravitated toward Shasta, while my sister took to Aravis. Certainly all the cats we had were special to all of us and none truly belonged more to one family member than to another, but Shasta took an extra special place in my heart. <br />
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Like all of our pets, Shasta had a plethora of nicknames. Once, we made a fire at the bottom of the backyard hill and Shasta came to hang out with us. We'd been roasting marshmallows and Shas, in his affectionate way, nuzzled his head against a roasting poker, still sticky with marshmallow. This earned him the name "Marshmallow-Head" and I could swear the faint blur of white hairs on the top of his otherwise black head was never there until the marshmallow incident.<br />
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"He was everything you could want in a cat," Daddy said tonight as he scooped dirt over Shasta's grave. And he certainly was.<br />
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I remember one evening, only a few years ago, when I found Shasta sleeping on the floor in the living room and, having nothing important to do, curled myself around him and just snuggled him there on the floor. He stirred and started to purr, and I just lay there, petting him and watching his satisfied claws knead at the air. I wasn't watching TV. I wasn't chatting with anyone. I wasn't doing anything at all except making my little kitty happy. I realized, "This is love: to do something sweet for someone you care about and not expect anything in return except to witness their pleasure." I learned true love from my cat.<br />
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When I got the call from Mom tonight that Shasta wasn't going to make it much longer, I cried. And Husband, being the sensitive man that he is, gave me a big hug and told me that Shasta would be very happy soon, no longer in pain, and maybe even dancing. OK, so there's maybe nothing Biblical to suggest that our pets will join us in Heaven, but I don't think there's anything to assure us that they won't. I prefer to think, at least for tonight, that when I'm called home, Shasta will be waiting for me. That he'll come trotting over, nuzzle my legs, and let me snuggle his furry little face to mine.<br />
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Farewell, my dear sweet Shasta.<br />
I do hope we will meet again.<br />
I love you.<br />
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<i>Man</i>: I think I saw T-bone steaks in the fridge.<br />
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<i>Me</i>: Ooo! That sounds good! I can't wait until I turn 79!<br />
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<i>Man</i>: It takes a long time.<br />
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And I picture all the birthdays going by, each one more surprising than the last...<br />
"Am I really 30 already?"<br />
"Can I really be 45?"<br />
"Sixty? Me, sixty?"<br />
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And finally today came along for my old man. Today he turned 79. Today he found it quite amusing that his two big numeral candles could be swapped on the cake to make him prematurely 97. Today he shared a vanilla sheet cake with his friends at the adult day center. Today he will have a T-bone steak with his wife. He didn't know it, but he waited a long time for this day. Turning 79 takes "a long time."Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-45090376562208375742012-05-24T19:25:00.000-07:002012-05-24T19:25:04.886-07:00Cemetery WalkAfter work today Husband and I walked in the cemetery, something we often do when we want to talk, take in some fresh air, or just escape life for a while. We stroll out past our landlord's garage, through his wide backyard, and over to the cemetery path. There, we loop around Oak Grove Cemetery noticing flowers, critters, clouds, trees, and names on headstones. The sameness of the routine is always eclipsed by the uniqueness of that particular walk. The season, the time of day, the weather, the things we can hear in the distance, or the encounters we have with nature.<br />
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A few days ago, Husband showed me how you can roll a tiny pinecone in your fingers and close it back up tight, like an unbloomed rose. We also found the pine seeds, which are like tiny maple whirligigs hidden in the pockets between the pinecone petals. <br />
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Another time we picked buttercups and found that although nearly all buttercups have five creamy yellow petals, there are some that have eight or nine.<br />
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Once we saw a deer in the cornfield beyond the trees. Another time we watched a groundhog there. On Sunday we sat on the asphalt path and watched tiny ants meander up and down the pavement's crevices. It must have seemed mountainous to them. <br />
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Today we saw a wild brown rabbit in the short grass of the yard. We inched our way toward him, making not a sound and trying to conceal our approach with slowness. We were probably 30 yards away when he froze. We shuffled closer and he started to tremble. A few more steps, and then he bolted. Our little Bunny. One day we'll tame him.<br />
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On the cemetery path, we smelled honeysuckle and found it, sucking drops of sweet nectar from the woody flower tips.<br />
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I tracked a honeybee on his travels through the honeysuckle.<br />
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After our honey adventures, we turned our attention to the sky where science-teacher-Husband explained how far away the cumulonimbus clouds probably were. We watched an airplane cut a path through the sky, becoming tinier and tinier but never plunging into the massive white vapor mountain. <br />
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Now, as I'm curled up on the couch after a bowl of ham and corn chowder, the vapor mountain - or, more likely, a different one - has burst over the house and a steady rain is smattering over the cemetery path, the honeysuckle bush, and the short grass of the just-mowed yard. Bunny is nestled deep in some warm, dry place. Honeybee is safe in his hive. And I'm ready to snuggle down into the rainy night too.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-26952326318900057412012-05-17T16:04:00.000-07:002012-05-17T16:04:13.805-07:00New FriendI work with old people. "My old people,"I fondly call them. The adult day center where I work cares for older adults who live with a spouse or an adult child, or some other family member or friend, but need care during the day. We serve about 60 clients per day and many of our clients have dementia.<br />
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Today I worked in a different room from where I normally work. My clients today, in this room, have more advanced dementia than the ones I usually help. One lady, I'll call her Adelaide, was new to me. I had not met her before. My first interaction with her, in the afternoon, involved a game of golf. We roll out a green mat with holes at one end each person gets to putt a little bit and try for a hole in one. As I set it up, Addie said she didn't want to play. Another lady asked if I ever played. "No," I said, "and I don't intend to!" (Golf is a good walk spoiled, I tend to think.) When it was Addie's turn, I asked if she wanted to play, despite her earlier assertion that she was not interested. "No," she said. "I've never played and I don't intend to." I could tell she had some spunk.<br />
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Later, she noticed a man on the other side of the room who had dozed off. "I think there's something wrong with his belly," she told me confidentially. "It's not moving. I was worried but I didn't want to tell anyone." I glanced over at him and reassured her that he was fine; he was breathing, just napping. "Oh, good," she said. "I thought we'd have to call the undertaker!"<br />
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At the end of the day I was sitting next to her and she noticed that we were both wearing striped shirts. "Hey, I've got white and blue stripes and you've got black and white stripes," she observed. I smiled. "Yes, I wear a lot of stripes," I said. "I like them." She chuckled. "Me too. I think flowers and stuff are stupid. If that's all you have, I guess it's OK." <br />
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Sweet Addie was excited to introduce me to her daughter who came to pick her up. "Did you meet this?" she asked, pointing to me.<br />
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"Cute," her daughter said. "You want to take her home with you?" Addie's daughter didn't seem quite as amused by Addie as I had been all day. But that's the beautiful part of my job. I made a new friend today and she liked me. I'll probably make friends with her all over again tomorrow.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-69384778992903158582012-05-06T16:54:00.000-07:002012-05-06T16:54:03.661-07:00Day of RestSunday normally functions as the second half of each week's catch-up
period. The weekend is the only time I usually have to run errands, make
a menu, do shopping, pay bills, clean the house, and do other assorted
chores. By Sunday night I'm tired, but satisfied that I've gotten things
mostly under control and the week can begin in a state of general order
before the whirlwind of another week sets things in chaotic swirl
again.<br />
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This weekend, I wanted to make Sunday truly a
rest day, rather than just another catch-up day. In anticipation, I
packed yesterday pretty full with chores. In the morning I went to the
bank with Mom to check on some financial paperwork I need for our house
purchase. Then I went to the mall for a replacement sugar jar. I broke
mine on Friday. I went to ALDI and Giant and stocked up on all the food
we'll need this week. I wrote a blog post at dinnerinparkerford, then in
the evening we went to dinner at Applebee's with my family where we
enjoyed the 2 minutes of elevated heartrate that are the Kentucky Derby.
Later, at home, I cleaned the bathroom - most importantly, the shower
curtain liner, a dreaded task that was actually not so bad, and felt so
unbelievably satisfying. I fell asleep very content with the checkmarks on my To Do list.<br />
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Today, we had a few responsibilities before the rest
could begin. We got up early to help set up the sound system at church.
The first service went well, and then Jim, another member of the sound
crew, agreed to watch the sound board during the second service and
clean up afterward, so we were free to head home by about 10:30. We
shared leftovers for lunch, then Husband napped while I read a book I'm
loaning from Mom and painted my toenails. It's been a long time since I
rested like that on a Sunday. Somehow, I didn't even feel that anxious,
'I'm-wasting-time' feeling that normally plagues me when I try to rest.
Perhaps God made our bodies - or mine, anyway - to appreciate rest on
Sunday, even when I normally find it so impossible. <br />
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Later, I helped husband work on some grading and
lesson planning (yes, a little bit of work was necessary), then we took a
short walk, on which I found two four-leaf clovers.<br />
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dinner I made Crunchy Chicken Casserole. There's something about making
dinner after a day mostly spent resting that's different from making
dinner after a long, exhausting day of work. I love cooking any time,
but it really felt refreshing to put a casserole together tonight. It
seemed easier, yet more significant. <br />
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I'm still figuring out what rest means. I'm awful at relaxing.
But today was good practice and it felt wonderful. I look forward to
taking resting seriously. <br />Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-27934585403037856272012-04-26T04:22:00.003-07:002012-04-26T04:22:41.496-07:00Dum DumTuesday night Husband and I were on our way to <a href="http://www.whm.org/sonship">class </a>at church. Coming up the hill past the cemetery, we saw a wolfish looking dog, a beautiful creature, crossing the road. We slowed down, stopped, and the dog came right up to the car. I opened the door, and she put her head in toward me. Not seeing any drool or crazed look in her eyes, I pet her and looked for a collar. Nothing. Her icy blue eyes told me she was a Husky. We pulled into the nearest driveway, and walked to the door to see if this was her home.<br />
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At the doorbell ring, a man with glasses and a short black ponytail came to the door. He looked like a short Johnny Depp.<br />
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"Is this your dog?"<br />
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"Yes, it is. Thanks guys."<br />
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"Sure. We just saw her out in the road."<br />
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"Yeah, she's been doing that. Come in here, Dum Dum. Hey, thanks again."<br />
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"No problem. Have a great night."<br />
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Dum Dum. I'm pretty sure it was a nickname to emphasize her folly in road-crossing. But it would be cute if it were her given name.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-15739239044841240702012-04-15T18:14:00.000-07:002012-05-05T16:49:29.380-07:00100<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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100 years since she sank.<br />
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I'm a sucker for Leo's <i>Titanic </i>of 1997 and I tend to forget that the ship was real, that she went down on a cold April night 100 years ago, and that people really drowned there in the water. I respect the truth of history, though, and appreciate the tragedy for its historic significance. I enjoyed the chance, on a cruise in 2009, to see some Titanic artifacts in a museum in Canada.<br />
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A deck chair recovered from Titanic<br />
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Sitting in a replica of a Titanic deck chair.<br />
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Third Class menu, a few days before she went down.<br />
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The grave marker for a J Dawson, who has become assumed to be the famous heartthrob Jack Dawson. <br />
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In 2008, when I was in Liverpool, where Titanic was built, I saw some other artifacts.<br />
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A life vest and the name-plate from one of the too-few life boats.<br />
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I've seen Titanic memorabilia on both sides of the ocean she couldn't quite cross. I respect her failure and the tragedy that her loss meant for so many people. I don't take Titanic's sinking lightly.<br />
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Nevertheless, I plan to see the re-released <i>Titanic </i>in 3D this weekend and I am so excited my heart is racing already. I never saw it in the theatre when it came out. I actually thought it would be dumb. "The ship sinks," I remember saying. "I know the ending so why would I want to watch it?" But in high school, probably 2004 or so, when I eventually saw it, I was hooked. The majesty of the ship, the hues of human nature the story illuminates, the sweeping soundtrack, and of course the love story. I'm extremely excited to see it on the big screen. I'll honor Titanic's 100th anniversary the only way I know how: by crying with Jack and Rose and imagining that, for a moment, I'm flying.<br />
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<i>Love can touch us one time, and last for a lifetime and never let go 'til we're gone. </i><br />
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<i>Make it count. </i></div>Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-56191120563976234092012-04-11T19:32:00.001-07:002012-04-11T19:33:37.872-07:00He is risen, just as he said.I wish I lived every day with the joy that Easter weekend brings. With the joy of remembering Christ's Great Exchange on the cross, everything that happens on Easter weekend seems perfect. This Easter weekend was especially wonderful.<br />
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I took Friday off and spent the morning baking Hot Cross Buns, a traditional Good Friday dessert. We went to church at 2:00 and from there, to my in-laws' house for dinner and family time. The meal was great and CatchPhrase and Family Feud after dinner were a blast. <br />
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On Saturday, Husband and I took it easy. We went for a drive, stopped for some Rita's, and then I spent some time outside near the cemetery reading. <br />
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Sunday morning, I had Nursery Duty at church both services, but I managed to sneak to the lobby and listen to the sermon. After church, we headed to Aunt Ruth's house. OK, so we're too old for an Easter Egg Hunt, but we were intrigued when Aunt Ruth said she had been walking in the woods behind her house and found some old bottles. She offered some alternate footwear if we wanted to go bottle hunting.<br />
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The woods aren't quite green yet. They're pink. The redbuds cast this pink glow over everything, a filter of rosiness through which even the bare tree branches look cheerful.<br />
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And our hunt? Successful! I vote to make Easter Bottle Hunt a tradition!<br />
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But that wasn't even the best part of the day. Later, during dinner, a lone fly was pestering us at the table. Dad was trying to clap it between his hands over the cream pitcher. Husband was trying a method of licking his fingers, then holding them out and waiting for the fly to alight. No one had been successful. The fly landed on a napkin in front of Grammy, my 80-some year old grandmother. With a stoic expression and great aplomb, Grammy brought her arthritis-gnarled hand slowly down on the fly. Then her stoicism melted away and she looked up at everyone with a look of dread and panic. I've seen old people do a lot of funny things; I work with people over 80 every day. But this was possibly the funniest. Husband and I tried to get our laughter under control while Mom got the fly-bearing napkin out from under Grammy's hand.<br />
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I love Easter and the spiritual significance it holds for us as Christians. I'm also thankful for the earthly joys God chose to give us this Easter weekend. God is so great in how He cares about providing big eternal joys and little temporal ones.<br />
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Happy Easter.<br />
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Yes, making a snow angel. In the grass, out in the backyard of Number Eight, Crick Road, Oxford, England. It was one week after Easter, and we woke up to a coating of snow over everything.<br />
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We built a snowman.<br />
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We threw snowballs.<br />
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And for a time, we forgot about our massive papers which were due in just a few days.<br />
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I remember April 6th of four years ago with great fondness. At my core, I'm a past-dweller. I thrive on nostalgia and happy memories. At times, this can remove me from the present and doom me to wasted hours spent wishing for the good old days. But remembering a day like April 6th, 2008 is inevitable. <br />
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Happy Snow Day-iversary!<br />
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May there always be snow somewhere on the sixth day of April! <br />
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On my way out of Giant's parking lot, I stopped at the traffic light for just a moment, then made an easy right turn. The next traffic light was already a green arrow, and I turned and got right onto the highway. As the next light approached, about a half mile away, I watched it turn green and saw the line of cars start to move through. By the time I got there, it was still green and the traffic had loosened so that I barely had to slow down. I assumed we'd all get jammed up at the next light, but somehow, it was green too. I breezed through, merged onto the off-ramp, then onto the next road, and in a few more minutes, I was at ALDI.<br />
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After the first already-green light: "Thanks, God! That was convenient!"<br />
After the second already-green light: A big smile "Hooray!"<br />
After the third already-green light: Almost laughing, "That was so cool."<br />
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God cares about traffic lights. And I think He laughed tonight too when He gave me three green ones in a row. What a delightful reminder of how much He cares for us.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-69877603645107933942012-03-19T18:18:00.000-07:002012-03-19T18:18:54.566-07:00Bethel<i>So early in the morning, Jacob took the stone that he had put under his head and set it up for a pillar and poured oil on the top of it. He called the name of that place Bethel [which means the house of God].</i><br />
<i>Gen. 28:18-19</i><br />
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At the edge of our cemetery, by which I mean the cemetery adjacent to our house, is a small meadow which backs up to a grove of trees covering the slope down to the road. At the place where the meadow and the treeline meet is a stone about the size of a coffee table. Slightly tapered at one end, like a miniature Pride Rock. The first time I saw it, I thought of the rock that Sylvester becomes in <i>Sylvester and the Magic Pebble</i>. It looks much like that rock.<br />
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I have always thought of it as a friendly rock, waiting for a picnic blanket to be spread over it or for lovers to share their intimate thoughts while sitting on it in the twilight or for a young woman in need to sit on it and ponder... <br />
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Today, we encountered quite a snag in our aspirations to buy a house. I was discouraged when I came home and frustrated. I also had a lot to do including baking for our church class tomorrow evening. But I knew I needed to pray and I thought a hard run might help me do that. I put on my sneakers and jogged a lap around the cemetery, meditating on Proverbs 19:23.<br />
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<i>The fear of the Lord leads to life, then one rests content, untouched by trouble. </i><br />
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My legs, unaccustomed to such exertion, quickly tired and I walked to the rock to sit and think. Sitting soon became reclining and I lay on the rock on my back (which was surprisingly comfortable), staring up at the blue sky through the crisscrossing still-bare branches of the trees. I turned to another verse card.<br />
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<i>2 Peter 1:3 His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.</i><br />
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Slowly, the words seeped into my heart and convicted me of my selfishness. What do I <i><b>need </b></i>that I don't already have? Nothing. God has already provided all that I need, and if other needs arise, He will meet them as well. Our house search is in His hands. We need nothing that He has not promised to provide. And as for life and godliness, this evening that included baking that cobbler and getting dinner ready for Husband who would be home soon. I had all I needed to complete those tasks, and for this evening, that was all God asked of me. <br />
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<i>I have given you all you need</i>, He said to me. <i>It's time to get up, go inside, and bake a cobbler for Me.</i> I stood up from the rock - my Bethel - walked inside, and obeyed.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-74328054191131526282012-03-18T18:35:00.000-07:002012-03-18T18:35:03.684-07:00LambSpringtime is for babies. Baby flowers pushing up through dusty earth in tiny green bullets. Baby birds hatching from speckled eggs. Baby lambs.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A few weeks ago, Husby and I went to see the play at his school, <i>The Secret Garden</i>, <br />
and this little sweetpea played Dickon's lamb. I got to pet him after the show. </td></tr>
</tbody></table>I get carried away with baby love in the spring (don't worry - no baby for me yet) and I just want to see little cuties everywhere I look. Husband thinks animal motifs disrupt the true meaning of Easter, and he's right, but how can you not just love this little Easter bunny?<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He's my lockscreen wallpaper on my phone</td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"> </td></tr>
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Fortunately, Husband did see to reason and agree to let me make a little Easter decoration for the living room. I wanted silhouettes of Easter animals, but it was much harder than you might think to find nice animal shadows. I finally found a lamb and a bunny I was happy with. Then I downloaded a springy seamless wallpaper from <a href="http://patterns.ava7.com/">patterns.ava7.com</a> and placed it behind the silhouettes. I printed them out, framed them, and set them on my half-table where I already had my little nest, a Ten Thousand Villages purchase from last spring.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Pete even admitted that he liked them when I got them finished.</td></tr>
</tbody></table>I think it would look even better if I could have made the animal separate from the background. I didn't have a real Springy scrapbook paper, but if I did, I would have printed out just the silhouettes, cut them out, and then placed them on top of a Spring backdrop in the frame. It would add depth. <br />
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Hope Spring babies brighten your week! Watch for the baby <a href="http://www.ustream.tv/decoraheagles">eagles </a>who will probably be hatching this week!Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-6790274134312916112012-03-16T15:54:00.000-07:002012-03-16T15:54:48.527-07:00CadburyI caved.<br />
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Last year I remember walking around Walmart - <i>on Easter day</i> - in search of a Cadbury egg. They were sold out. This year, I had again been holding out on buying Easter candy. I thought giving in to jelly beans, malted milk eggs, and peeps in March might be a bit much. But when I saw Easter candy at ALDI, I couldn't resist. And I wasn't taking any chances on not getting a Cadbury egg again this year.<br />
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More on the true meaning Easter to come, but I have to admit on this beautiful Friday afternoon that I do love Easter candy. Sugar me up in the sunny springtime days!Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-15949965957075814182012-03-10T11:51:00.000-08:002012-03-10T11:51:48.758-08:00Cha-ChingFour ways I saved money in two hours this morning:<br />
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1. Got a $5 gift card at Target for buying printer ink.<br />
2. Traded in used books at Books 4 Less, therefore earning credit at the store.<br />
3. Saved 20 cents per gallon at Giant gas station by using my Bonus Card.<br />
4. Shopped at ALDI and spent just $25 on food for the week.Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149085726314497987.post-2394838226780976912012-03-08T17:33:00.000-08:002012-03-08T17:33:57.452-08:00Spring ThingsSpring Encounters Today:<br />
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Crocuses smiling up at me from the flowerbeds.<br />
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My clients comparing canes outside in the sunshiney garden after lunch.<br />
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A squirrel skittering out of the dumpster when I approach to throw in some trash.<br />
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Propping bright white flowers in a blue vase.<br />
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Not wearing a coat.<br />
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Has Spring met you?Brittaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12158418202381878094noreply@blogger.com0